Ladies, does it sometimes feel like any romantic gesture you make for your man is perceived as foreplay? And that’s not your intention?
You want him to know he’s loved, appreciated, valued. You really want to romance his heart. Not his libido.
So here’s a Romantic Moment idea he may never admit he desires and needs.
When a man collapses on the couch at the end of the day, he’s not just sitting down to rest. It’s a transition moment for him. He sits down, and the weight of his responsibilities, the tension, pressures, and expectations of his day begin to retreat.
This is when you can create a Romantic Moment for him.
Join him on the couch, sitting close enough so he can feel you as you lean lightly against him. No questions. No to-do lists. Just joining him as he decompresses.
If he wants to talk, listen. If the conversation turns toward household responsibilities or tomorrow’s problems, gently suggest, “Can we talk about that later?”
Let this be a moment unique from the rest of his day.
As you sense him beginning to relax, tell him something he my not often hear: “I’m proud of you.” Then say specifically why you’re proud of him.
You might also lay your head on his shoulder, simply saying, “I’m so happy to be with you.”
You’ve created a Romantic Moment just for him. No agenda. No expectations. No dragons to battle. Just relaxation and connection with someone who cares – you.
Romance isn’t just sex. It’s moments of deep meaning you share. Giving a gift your partner might not realize he craves.
He may not remember what’s said. But he will remember this Romantic Moment, your happiness at being together, and how he felt when you created a safe place in the middle of his chaotic world.
Guys. Do you agree this would touch you? Let me know. Men. In the next Romantic Memo, I’ll share with you how to romance your lady how she wants to be romanced without flowers, chocolates or dinner reservations.
Robert Beagle
