Ladies, are you trying hard to create the perfect Romantic Moments for your man?
You may be thinking about something grand. Spectacular. But you could be missing what he secretly wants.
This continues my series exploring Romantic Moments your partner secretly wishes you’d create but may never ask for. It’s an idea to romance “you man” in ways he might not admit he desires. A Romantic Moment he may want for but never request.
Make all the plans for an evening out for the two of you. Choose a restaurant where he feels comfortable. Reserve a table for two. Perhaps include a relaxing walk afterwards. Add somewhere unexpected where he can indulge in his favorite dessert
If he enjoys getting dressed up, select an upscale restaurant. Let him put on his suit/tuxedo. Dress accordingly. This might be the prelude to the symphony or other event he’d enjoy.
Send him a handwritten invitation. Share the plans you’ve made.
Take care of any reservations and other necessary arrangements. Pay for all the activities. If he’s comfortable with it, drive.
During the evening, take his hand or arm. Give him a discreet peck on the cheek or neck. Let your actions show you’re proud to be with him.
This evening, he’s been relieved of his “duty” to figure out what you might like to do. You’ve taken responsibility for creating the Romantic Moment. You’ve initiated touch, which me may secretly crave.
You’ve sent a powerful message with this Romantic Moment.
- I thought of you.
- I want to be with you.
- I’m proud to be with you.
- I’ve created something I think you’ll enjoy.
You’ve shown him he’s loved and wanted. Those are powerful messages for any long-term relationship.
And in quiet, almost subtle ways you’ve romanced him how he secretly wishes you would.
Guys, would this Romantic Moment leave you feeling romanced? Let me know. In the next Romantic Memo, I’ll share with men another way to romance your lady how she desires to be romanced yet won’t ask for.
Robert Beagle
