Is touch critical to the lady in your life?
I’ve written about how a woman’s touch impacts her man’s health. I began wondering if a man’s touch also impacts his partner.
Research shows, there’s a crisis among women today, especially in America. Most have what I call “skin-hunger.” They’re touch deprived and crave being touched
Understand, women have three times as many touch receptors in their skin as men. Three times. Let that sink in.
For women, touch isn’t just a luxury—it’s essential. It’s how she feels connected. If you’re not touching her in a meaningful and confident way, you’ve become or are becoming invisible to her. You disappear into the background noise of her life. Your relationship suffers.
In her mind, touch creates and strengthens the relationship with you. Without enough of your touching, the relationship shrinks. Touching her frequently in a loving, confident way helps your relationship flourish.
And for a woman, gentle, loving touching can deescalate an argument. Reduce the tension between you. Your grounded, self-assured touch connects you. Creates an “us,” instead of a “you versus me.” The tension in her body softens. The disagreement depressurizes.
So men, even if you’re not the “touchy-feely type”, if you’re not comfortable with frequent touching, know this: touching your lady is vital to your relationship. Helps keep Romance Alive between you.
Here are my suggestions.
• If you haven’t been touching her often, start doing so. Easily, gently, and deliberately touch her arm during casual conversations.
• No shy, sly teenage boy stuff. Touch her confidently.
• Make eye contact while touching. Smile. This multiplies the impact of your touch.
After all, men who knows when and how to touch a woman commands her attention. It positively impacts your relationship and results in him touching her in the place that’ll drive her crazy. Her heart.
What do you think? Does a man’s touch impacts his partner and their relationship? Let me know your thoughts or experience.
Robert Beagle LET
