Micro-connections are simple, thoughtful gestures you create for your partner that strengthen your relationship. Examples would be text messages, a wink across the room, a hyperlink to a song.
Here’s how you can use micro-connections to create Romantic Moments for your partner.
Create a list of 20 things you love about your partner or things you’d like to say to them. For example, “You are the sunshine of my day.” “The thought of your smile keeps interrupting my day.” “I love the way you hug me.” Each reminds them you love them.
Handwrite each message on a separate small card or slip of paper. Every few days, put one of these messages somewhere your partner will discover it. Watch their reaction when they “find” it.
Watch their reaction when they “find” it. That quiet smile. That moment of feeling seen and appreciated.
“Hide” a message four different days during the week and you’ll have five weeks of surprises for your sweetheart. Or create them as text messages, sent at random times on random days.
Small, consistent reminders of their import to you, keeps your Romance Alive.
What micro-connection will you attempt? Let me know in the comments.
Robert Beagle
