Would you be willing to create a non-traditional Romantic Moment?
It may not initially sound romantic but follow me here. One warning. It could be challenging.
A powerful way to strengthen your relationship and keep romance alive is with relationship check-ins. People in long-term relationships agree these are key. They:
- Keep communications open.
- Address concerns before they explode.
- Are needed regularly.
But these don’t happen serendipitously.
Create a relational check-in Romantic Moment. Choose early evening and create a relaxed environment in a quiet location. Turn off the entertainment. Silence devices.
Tell your partner how much you value them and your relationship. Let them know you’d like to keep connections strong and check-in to see how they feel things are going between you two.
Now listen. Even if they explode. When concerns arise, explore them together. When they talk, listen. Keep the conversation focused and respectful. Look for resolutions.
You may find this Romantic Moment creates more emotional intimacy, trust and connection than candlelight and bouquets.
I’m curious. Would you be willing to try this?
Robert
