If you hear, “Whatever you’d like is fine with me,” does it drive you crazy?
You ask your partner where they’d like to eat, do, or go and you get, “Whatever.” That leaves you frustrated.
Instead of assuming they don’t care, try this simple Romantic Moment idea.
Create several “Make a Wish cards with one change. Create cards with, “Make a wish, and let me know your answer in an hour.”
Maybe make them for choosing:
- A restaurant
- Where to go for the weekend.
- Anything they’d like to do.
Suddenly your partner isn’t confronted with making the decision right this minute. The pressures off. They have time to think and decide what they’d really enjoy.
With this subtle change, you might find your partner beginning to state their honest preferences.
A Romantic Moment can go beyond the momentary joy you share from an activity. It might help you learn more about your partner and what they like. Creating better possibilities of future Romantic Moments.
Are you willing to try this? Let me know how it goes.
Robert Beagle
