Guys, when your lady sees your name pop up on a text message, does she smile or just expect another logistics message?
Be honest with me. Are your texts mostly logistics and instructions?
This continues my series exploring Romantic Moments your partner may secretly wish you’d create but may never ask for. This time it’s text messages that don’t warm her heart, those which do, and how to romance her with texts.
Most texts guys send center on requests, information and logistics. There’s nothing wrong with them. Life requires them. But if that describes most of your texts, do you think your partner smiles at the notice of a text from you?
This simple modification can change her response to your texts.
Send her impractical texts which have no practical purpose.
- Just wanted you to know I’m thinking of you.
- Good morning beautiful. Looking forward to seeing you later.
- Did you get home okay?
- Good night my love. I’ll be dreaming about you.
No logistics to resolve. No action to take. No instructions.
These texts communicates she’s important to you. She’s on your mind. She matters to you. They romance her.
Now take it a step further.
Whether you’ve been together a week or decades, unexpectedly ask her out with a text: “I’d like to take you to dinner tomorrow night. I’ll make reservations. Are you free?”
You’ve taken the initiative, which women find attractive. You’re taking responsibility for making plans. It tells her she’s not only important to you. You want to spend time with her. She feels wanted. That creates a real Romantic Moment.
Your phone can be just another electronic device. Or you can turn it into a means to romance the woman you love. It’s up to you how you use it.
Guys, what could you text her right now?
And ladies, would this type of text touch your heart? Let me know. In the next Romantic Memo, we’ll explore another Romantic Moment idea to touch your guy’s heart in a way he may never admit he craves.
Robert Beagle
