What a Child’s Sandcastle Taught Me About Romance

It fascinated me.
During one of my Robert Retreats at the beach, I watched a young child absorbed in play. It wasn’t so much their play. This child had been playing the same game when I walked by about an hour before.
Using a small plastic bucket, they’d fill it with wet sand, carry it above the waterline, and turn it upside down, adding to the line of “bucket-castles” previously created.
Turn an Ordinary Napkin into an Unforgettable Romantic Moment

Napkins are more than just flimsy pieces of paper. The idea for Southwest Airlines was conceived on a napkin. The design of the block numbers on your credit card and Seattle’s Space Needle were first sketched on a napkin. Lionel Messi’s first contract with FC Barcelona was signed on a napkin.
Now use this common item for a Romantic Moment for your relationship.
Why Most Gifts Don’t Feel Romantic (And How to Fix It)

What do Father’s Day ties, a dozen red roses and store-brand chocolates have in common? You might be surprised.
Years ago, I received an interesting collection of Christmas gifts. As I opened each gift, expecting something special, here’s some of what I found.
One Simple Choice That Turns Conflict Into Connection

It probably started with a single comment reflecting sharply differing political opinions. It exploded into an emotionally fueled argument. Mel’s temper ignited and he stormed off. Dumbfounded, the cast and movie crew went silent.
Want to Create a Memory They’ll Never Forget? Try This Unexpected Idea

Skip the Occasion—Here’s How to Surprise Your Partner with Pure Romance. People often create Romantic Moments for specific reasons. A birthday. An anniversary. Valentine’s Day. Because you’re in trouble! Instead….
The One Thing That Truly Holds Relationships Together

The secret to lasting romance isn’t what you think—and it’s probably missing from most relationships.
From Shy Animals to Shared Stories: A Romantic Moment Safari

Ever seen pictures of safari guides sitting on a seat attached to the front bumper of their vehicle? Some reels show a lion playing stare-down with the park ranger – nothing between them. YIKES!
Opposites Attract, But Can They Stay Together?

Is your partner organized or disorganized? How about you? Are there differences between the two or you?
Opposites do attract. Sometimes this attraction comes from finding someone who brings strengths to your life you don’t have.
Organized or Spontaneous? How to Create Irresistible Romantic Moments

Ever considered creating a Romantic Moment for your partner based on whether they’re an organized planner or a spontaneous non-planner?
Let’s say your partner is the non-planner.
From Gentle Swells to Nor’easters: Keeping Love Afloat with Romance

It was beautiful. Sunny. Gentle swells. A sixteen-knot south wind. Ideal conditions for sailing. Robert and Kathleen were anxious to get out on the ocean.
Several other parties arrived after them. Their captains half-heartedly prepared their boat, focused on leaving the harbor instead of preparation. These boats were already miles offshore. Sails billowing. Drinks flowing.